Michelle Elman

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🔥I HAVE A PODCAST! 🔥 We all have that frie

🔥I HAVE A PODCAST! 🔥

We all have that friend that teeters on the line of too-honest. She may not be the friend to go to when you’ve decided to get back together with your ex, but she’ll definitely be the friend you go to when it all backfires and you are ready for the truth. That’s where In All Honesty comes in. Every Wednesday, I will answer your questions using both my expertise and experience of working with clients to provide solutions that not only work but enhance your life. In All Honesty makes personal development accessible, with help from a professional, without the six-week waiting list.

YES, that means I’ll be taking your questions and giving you honest personalised answers to your problems. Think of it as an extension of my Monday Q&As with more context and therefore a more customised answer!

The first episode is out now and is on anxiety and you can find it on iTunes, Spotify or Acast so go download it now and remember to hit SUBSCRIBE while you are there because there is a new episode EVERY Wednesday!

For this podcast to exist, I need your help though... I need your questions! To get your question answered, send me a voicenote to inallhonesty@mindsetforlife.co.uk . First voicenotes sent, are the first that get answered so get in there while my inbox is empty!

Also for those of you who love my analysis of TV shows, it’s got a special segment every week that you’ll enjoy where I use TV shows to help us improve our communication!

So excited! This has been over a year in the making 🥰🥺
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Photographer: @lindablacker
Makeup Artist: @ashleighmua
Graphic Designer: @stuffjamiesaid

I wanted my feed to look more like what I’ve bee

I wanted my feed to look more like what I’ve been looking like for the last 2 weeks or so, so hi! This is what I look like right now.
I’m going through a tough patch and it’s nothing I won’t get through.
Actually the greatest thing therapy and life coaching has given me is the fact that I know with every fibre of my being, I will survive this.
That and the fact I have absolute proof that the lower the low, the higher the high.
So watch out cause my next high is gonna be INCREDIBLE.
But for now, I’m knee deep into processing feelings.
You all know I’m an advocate of crying so I do my work during the day and I cry in the evenings.
I do both.
And sometimes one affects the other but that’s OK because I’m human and I have my limits too.
So anyway, here’s a selfie I took after I wrote this caption.
2020: The year of puffy eyes, messy hair and living in the same 5 comfy dresses

I’m not an easy person to be friends with. I’m

I’m not an easy person to be friends with.
I’m not an easy person to work with.
I’m not an easy person to be in a relationship.

For years, I would have thought the above was a bad thing but as I learned about boundaries, I realised what being “easy” was code for:
- People pleasing
- Not asking for anything
- Agreeing to everything
- Letting others decide
- Being OK with bad treatment

I may not be easy anymore but what I am is simple.
I say what I mean and mean what I say.
You will know when I hate something but you will also know when I love something.
You will know if I have an issue with you but you will also know when I appreciate you.
I am as vocal in the tough conversations as in the fun ones.
Stop making your goal in life to likeable and easy.
Instead make your goal in life to be fulfilled.
And fulfilled people have those hard conversations.

Repeat after me. I don’t need to be stressed to

Repeat after me.
I don’t need to be stressed to be productive.
I don’t need to be mean to myself to be motivated.
Working efficiently is way more effective than working hard.
I am in charge of my time and I manage it well.

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